Life is So Much Better Because of You

Life is so much better because of you!

Life is so much better because of you!

Happy Birthday, Mama!  I’m writing this for you.  And, for the others of you who are reading this, I’m writing to encourage you to think about who has most influenced, most supported, and most loved you.  More specifically, when you think: “Life is so much better because of you!”…who do you think of?  Do you already tell them how much they mean to you?  Maybe you need to tell them again today or for the first time even.

Before I go any further, let me say how blessed I am to have an amazing family.  The more I go along in life, the more appreciative I am of each of them.  They are the ones who make life most fun and the ones who make life most bearable.  Life is so much better because of each of them.  And, I tell them often in one way or another: Life is so much better because of you!

As much as I love my family, I want to specifically honor my mother today because it’s her birthday, because I love her like crazy, and because she has been with me the longest…cheering me on through the highs and encouraging me through the lows.  She is the wisest, strongest, hardest-working, most dependable person I know.  I count on my Mama.  I truly can say my life is so much better because of you, Mama!

Tell Your Loved Ones You Love Them

One of the many important lessons I’ve learned over time from my mother is that you should tell your loved ones you love them.  Her parents weren’t as forthcoming with expressions of love, and so she made sure to tell my brothers and me that she loved us when we were growing up.  She told us, wrote us notes, danced with us in the kitchen, laughed with us, sacrificed time and money for us…all to ensure that we knew she loved us.  She still tells us today.  And, I recognize more and more how sweet those words are and how fortunate I am to have her in my life.

The Five Love Languages

What about you?  How do you express love?  My good friend, co-author, and NY Times Best-Seller, Dr. Gary Chapman, has helped millions over time with his book: The Five Love Languages.  The five love languages are: words of affirmation, physical touch, gifts, quality time, and acts of service.  You can read more about those at www.5lovelanguages.com.  You can also take the free and fast online test to determine your love language.

More than simply know our love language, we need to know our loved ones’ love languages, and then we need to actually follow through with speaking their language.  Why?  Because our loved ones won’t necessarily “just know” we love them.  We also aren’t promised tomorrow.  Today is the time to invest time and energy in our relationships and to tell our loved ones how much they mean to us.

Now, Not Later

My father’s health is quickly declining; he won’t be with us much longer.  I don’t know how well he understands me anymore, but when I sit with him, I tell him that I love him, that he has been a good father, and that I appreciate all the hard work he did for me and for our family.  I wish I would have told him more often when he was well.  But, I’m learning—life is short.  Now, not later, is the time to tell our loved ones: Life is so much better because of you!

On Birthdays and Every Day

Mama, thank you for all you’ve done and continue to do for me and our family.  God could not have given me a better mother or better friend.  Thank you for your unconditional love, good humor, patience, hopefulness, selflessness, and wise counsel.  Life is so much better because of you!

And, to the rest of you, thank you for your friendship and support!  I hope you’re thinking about to whom and how you might express love and gratitude.  I hope you have in mind one and many people of whom you can say: Life is so much better because of you!  Today may or may not be their birthday, but then again, it doesn’t have to be someone’s birthday to tell them how much they mean to you.


Before you go…

Who are you thinking of?  How have they made your life so much better?  Share your thoughts below in the comments section.  I’ll do my best to get those posted as quickly as possible.

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Co-author with @DrGaryChapman (the 5 love languages guy). Teacher @WakeForest. Counselor @TriadBaptist. Wife, mom of 3, daughter, sister, friend. Writer. Encourager. Dreamer behind Repurposed Life Ministries, Inc. Peace-loving. Jesus-seeking.

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6 Comments

  1. lorene s nelson April 10, 2017 at 1:20 pm - Reply

    This is beautiful Shannon. I miss talking to you! Love Lorene

    • Shannon Warden April 10, 2017 at 1:26 pm - Reply

      Hey, Lorene! Thank you sweet friend! I imagine your family feels about you like I feel about my mom. You’re a mighty special person!!

  2. Jacque Rumburg April 10, 2017 at 1:39 pm - Reply

    Beautiful message! Enjoy each and every moment with our love ones. Forgive quickly and love more. Thanks for sharing Shannon.

    • Shannon Warden April 10, 2017 at 1:43 pm - Reply

      Thank you, Jacque, for your friendship and amazing ministry to so many!! You are a blessing!!

  3. Nancy Lee April 10, 2017 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    What a beautiful tribute Shannon! Sandra is an amazing woman and I know she has been a blessing to her family and anyone that knows her. I am certain you inherited many of her beautiful qualities that make you what you are today. Thank you for this very inspirational message.

    • Shannon Warden April 11, 2017 at 12:12 am - Reply

      Thank you, Nancy! I truly am blessed by my mom, as are so many. And she’s super humble about it all, which is another reason I love and respect her so much. God bless you sweet friend!

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